So, why isn’t your husband interested in you? Ever get the feeling that the man you are supposed to be spending the rest of your life with is holding back? Why won’t your husband have sex with you?
Wow, three tough questions to ask but the truth is, they are being asked on a frequent basis, just do a search for them online.
We ran across an advice column where one worried reader is wondering “why is my marriage is empty”. She says it’s devoid of any emotion. She says that on the surface, it looks fine but beneath it, the intimacy is not there. The response listed several reasons for this. Here they are:
- her husband could be gay
- he could be asexual
- he could be having an affair
- he’s just not attracted to you anymore
That’s four possibilities she probably didn’t want to hear but needed to.
“John” and I have been married for 15 years. He is a wonderful person and a great father to our two young girls.
Our relationship is fine on the surface, but it’s emotionally empty. There is little intimacy, which has been an issue throughout our marriage. It manifests itself periodically in arguments that never seem to get resolved. John refuses to go to counseling. He wonders why I cannot “just be happy,” because from his perspective, everything is fine. I have told him clearly that I need more attention and affection, but I have come to the realization that he is “just not that into me.”
I have tried counseling on my own, but I was told to accept things as they are or end the marriage. Annie, I love my family. I am not asking for a magical romance. I can’t see why it’s so hard for him to express his love if he cares for me as much as he says.
I don’t want to leave, but things could be much better if John would only put a little more effort into our marriage. Any suggestions? Or am I just destined to have an emotionless relationship?…..
The reality is, sometimes you have to hear possible reasons but the advice given in this instance was short, to the point and solid. There is no point in theorizing here; if you are worried then the only way to get to the bottom of it is to talk with him about it, don’t you agree.
Signs Your Husband Isn’t Interested In You Anymore
Meanwhile, what are the signs your husband isn’t interested in you anymore? Are there signs your husband isn’t interested in you anymore? A report we found on our hard drive published a couple of years ago lists six signs which could confirm he has lost interest.
- he avoids spending time at home
- the appreciation and compliments stop
- there is a lot of blaming and accusing
- you stop doing stuff together
When a couple gets married it is with the hope that the relationship will last forever. However, all individuals are on an emotional journey. Each is evolving from one aspect of life to another and often the kind of things they seek at 25 when they are married are not those they might want 15 years later when they turn 40. If partners have not kept up with each other, or kept the love alive, the relationship will go into decline, with the husband, most likely, voting with his feet.
There are six sure signs that your husband is not interested in you anymore and they gradually become unmistakable, except that some people, if they are feeling that way too, either fail to notice them or prefer to live in denial and refuse to see them…..
Have you been having the same concerns lately? What have you done to get to the bottom of it? Have you had your worst fears realized? There are a lot of conclusions here but rather than trying to guess, getting answers straight from the source makes sense. After all, you are a couple and you should be able to talk to each other when things don’t seem normal right?